Why are women STILL judged on their looks?

Henry wrote:Personally I like beautiful/attractive/pretty/slim women to look at. I'm not judging them as human beings though.

vills wrote:From today's heil:

Half of British women dread baring their bikini belly at the beach more than getting naked with a new man for the first time

More than half of women said their tummy was an area of concern when they were wearing swimwear while one fifth of respondents said 'everything' worried them.

Syl wrote:

Henry wrote:Personally I like beautiful/attractive/pretty/slim women to look at. I'm not judging them as human beings though.

I suppose we are all judged initially on our looks, it's instinctive human nature. But cleanliness ..a warm demeaner..wit and humour..kindness and honesty...when it comes to females they often come down on the list after physical beauty.
Not so with men.

I think it's the way we are brought up.

Henry wrote:

Syl wrote:

Henry wrote:Personally I like beautiful/attractive/pretty/slim women to look at. I'm not judging them as human beings though.

I suppose we are all judged initially on our looks, it's instinctive human nature. But cleanliness ..a warm demeaner..wit and humour..kindness and honesty...when it comes to females they often come down on the list after physical beauty.
Not so with men.

I think it's the way we are brought up.

I'd like to appear all superior on this issue but in truth I'm not. My wife was a stunner when she was young, I cant pretend I sought her warm demeanour before getting into her pants. Nature I guess.

Syl wrote:

Henry wrote:

Syl wrote:

Henry wrote:Personally I like beautiful/attractive/pretty/slim women to look at. I'm not judging them as human beings though.

I suppose we are all judged initially on our looks, it's instinctive human nature. But cleanliness ..a warm demeaner..wit and humour..kindness and honesty...when it comes to females they often come down on the list after physical beauty.
Not so with men.

I think it's the way we are brought up.

I'd like to appear all superior on this issue but in truth I'm not. My wife was a stunner when she was young, I cant pretend I sought her warm demeanour before getting into her pants. Nature I guess.

Is she not a stunner now Henry?
My OH still thinks I look the same as when we met....obviously I dont but in his eyes I do.
Thats one good thing about getting older, the eyesight fades.

Henry wrote:

Syl wrote:

Henry wrote:

I'd like to appear all superior on this issue but in truth I'm not. My wife was a stunner when she was young, I cant pretend I sought her warm demeanour before getting into her pants. Nature I guess.

Is she not a stunner now Henry?
My OH still thinks I look the same as when we met....obviously I dont but in his eyes I do.
Thats one good thing about getting older, the eyesight fades.

Good for her age - but there's no longer a string of Lotharios seeking her favours.

Gabby wrote:Lol, some funny comments

Looks are first impression ..... other qualities a person may have come later..... and they can often be more attractive!

Syl wrote:

Henry wrote:

Syl wrote:

Henry wrote:

I'd like to appear all superior on this issue but in truth I'm not. My wife was a stunner when she was young, I cant pretend I sought her warm demeanour before getting into her pants. Nature I guess.

Is she not a stunner now Henry?
My OH still thinks I look the same as when we met....obviously I dont but in his eyes I do.
Thats one good thing about getting older, the eyesight fades.

Good for her age - but there's no longer a string of Lotharios seeking her favours.

Maybe she gives out an air of a woman no longer interested.
Maybe they (said lotharios) keep away because she is married.
Or maybe she just doesn't let on.

Syl wrote:When is the last time you heard a male bitch about one of his mates hairstyles or the size of his nose?

Syl wrote:

Gabby wrote:Lol, some funny comments

Looks are first impression ..... other qualities a person may have come later..... and they can often be more attractive!

Agreed Gabby....and you are someone (imo) who doesn't judge women solely on looks like some do.

I do think women are worse than men when it comes to criticising other women.
Most men are just happy with what they can get.

Ali wrote:Beauty is only skin deep anyway. It's who the person is that counts, not whether they have perfect skin, no wobbles etc.

Dean wrote:

Syl wrote:When is the last time you heard a male bitch about one of his mates hairstyles or the size of his nose?

Every single day at work or in the pub.

Mama kaz wrote:

Dean wrote:

Syl wrote:When is the last time you heard a male bitch about one of his mates hairstyles or the size of his nose?

Every single day at work or in the pub.

Really?! The guys around me do nothing but call each other some REALLY crap names, slag each other off yes, but not hairstyles or nose

vills wrote:Of course camp and gay are two different things.

vills wrote:Of course camp and gay are two different things.

Mama kaz wrote:

Dean wrote:

Syl wrote:When is the last time you heard a male bitch about one of his mates hairstyles or the size of his nose?

Every single day at work or in the pub.

Really?! The guys around me do nothing but call each other some REALLY crap names, slag each other off yes, but not hairstyles or nose

Gabby wrote:

vills wrote:Of course camp and gay are two different things.

Are they?...... why would a straight guy act camp?

Gabby wrote:

vills wrote:Of course camp and gay are two different things.

Are they?...... why would a straight guy act camp?